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How To Win A Guy In 10 Ways

updated on January 7, 2021March 13, 20194 Comments on How To Win A Guy In 10 Ways

In celebration of International Women’s Day last March 8, I’ve put together a list on how to win a man’s heart because, as society dictates, getting a man is the ultimate goal in life of every woman. Number 1: Do not introduce yourself. Instead, invade his work area the first time you meet and tinker with his things, especially if he were OC.

  • HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! The year 2021 was the year of focusing on what is truly important—FAMILY. Plans were postponed. Dreams were reassessed. Goals were realigned. This 2022 is the year we truly enjoy the fruits of our labor—still with our family. We get to turn our plans into reality. We choose which dreams we truly value. We live in alignment with our goals. May this year and beyond bring you happiness, wellness, and purpose. Always and in all ways, may we remain our faith in God’s guidance. Have a blessed New Year, everyone! No resolutions for this family (the @architecthusband, #BigBoyJesse, and I never really create resolutions. LOL.) because every day is an opportunity to do and be better. #familygoals #ChristianFamily #ProudINC #happynewyear2021 #JourneyWithBigBoyJesse #architecthusband
  • SO, LAST MONTH WE DID SOMETHING We launched the newest BNI chapter in the Manila South region of @bni.global Philippines within three months (which typically takes a year to accomplish)—BNI Fortune! Congratulations to all of us, Manila South Regional Director @gabthemac , Manila South Support and Growth Directors Arch. @theanniezabala and Arch. @dllandicho , Support and Growth Ambassador Jenny Wang, Launch Ambassadors Aldric de Leon, Marie Macadangdang, and @krizara.photography , and BNI Fortune Leadership Team Vice President Irene Garcia, Secretary/Treasurer @franco_madrid , Growth Coordinator @jcspeechcoach , Lead Visitor Host @raaalphreyes , Communications Coordinator Camille Tan, Network Education Coordinator @ivanncarandang , Mentor Coordinator @_pmjgarcia , Events Coordinator @noimnotjustnic604 , Membership Committee Chairs @rgcabangbang , Michael Fajardo, @xxxnadinexxx , and Lila Marquez, Deputy Secretary/Treasurer @riegorushel , Deputy Growth Coordinator @la_ulep , Visitor Hosts Atty. Ceto Ammogao, @powcham , @freddellosa , Bunny Marfil, and Arch. Rex Santos, @raf_taberna , Deputy Communications Coordinator Mark Carandang, Deputy Network Education Coordinator @cyrilsorongon , Deputy Mentor Coordinator @vonreyes_king , Deputy Events Coordinator @vonsj , and One to One Coordinator Nino Malaya! When our chapter was starting to grow, someone coined the word “FAMILY” and I realized that we were really starting to feel like a family. We have our “batang ama” (haha!) RD Gab, Uncle Mike who drops the best jokes, and we even refer to each other as “brothers” and “sisters.” Holding one-to-ones never feels like a chore, rather, it’s something we look forward to doing apart from attending our weekly chapter meetings. In BNI Fortune, we operate like a well-oiled machine. We chartered our chapter in quite a short time. We’ve organized and facilitated our own information sessions. Heck, we even pulled off our own launch day by ourselves. I believe we are keen to growing our chapter into a full fledged agency with a complete roster of products and services that provides solutions to our clients’ diverse needs. (to be continued in last photo)
  • GRATEFUL NO MATTER WHAT This pandemic has taken the lives and livelihood of many so it’s quite common to wonder how do we stay positive during these times? We believe (and it is taught to us in #IglesiaNiCristo) that true happiness does not depend on current circumstances—it stems from having strong faith in God and living our life’s purpose. The year 2021 is not for the faint of heart. A lot of hardships were endured, too many heartaches encountered, and much losses were incurred, among many others. We could either focus on sadness, disappointment, and fear, or channel our energies to experiencing bliss, creating opportunities, and being courageous. We can't always choose to avoid experiencing problems, but we can choose how we view problems and how we deal with them. We don’t thank God only for the good that happens to us. We are grateful for both the good and the bad. Because having faith means finding and living our purpose through life’s toughest moments. And the best way to overcome fear is to have purpose. May we all live our purpose and may we be grateful no matter what. Happy Thanksgiving to my fellow brethren and happy holidays to everyone! PS: The #architecthusband and I have enjoyed a bit of couple time the past few days (huge thanks to our families for looking after #BigBoyJesse) and we couldn’t be more grateful. 🥰 #ProudINC #ChurchofChrist #marriagefirst #YETG2021 #thankfulnomatterwhat
  • #BIGBOYJESSE NOW LEADS OUR PRAYER DURING MEALTIME That is one of the many things we are grateful for this year: that it was Jesse himself who volunteered to lead the prayer. His prayer is pretty simple and straightforward: “Dear God, Thank you for all your blessings, especially for our food today. We ask all of these through Christ our Lord. Amen.” Sometimes he forgets the line “especially for our food today.” Or sometimes he interchanges the words in the last phrase: “through Christ our Lord, we ask all of these. Amen.” In any case, we are thankful. In this morning’s #IglesiaNiCristo Children’s Worship Service Thanksgiving, though Jesse was asleep most of the time, we are grateful that he mustered his energy to wake up early to get ready. At the end of the service, he still managed to give a warm smile for the camera, though I could really sense how tired he still was. Hehe… Happy #YearEndThanksgiving2021, fellow brethren! Continue being extraordinary during these extraordinary times. 🥰🙌🏽 #JourneyWithBigBoyJesse #ChurchOfChrist #ProudINC #childrensworshipservice #CWS #PNK #ILovePNK #YETG2021
  • HAPPY 11th BOYFRIEND-GIRLFRIEND ANNIVERSARY, B! It has been 11 years since I started reciprocating the @architecthusband’s head-over-heels love over me. Bwahahahahaha!! Who would have thought that you falling in love with me the moment you laid your eyes on me (I kid, I knew you found my loudness and nonchalance annoying from the get go because the type you usually fell for had been petite, prim, and proper, and I AM NOWHERE NEAR any of those 😂), coming to our house every single day (except for when you were sick which was like once a year, so it was one of the two instances I went to you—the other was when it was your birthday. Hahaha!), me breaking up with you every month when I was nearing my period (TMI 😅), and so much more, would get us to this. LOL. Look #howfarwevecome, now we have #BigBoyJesse! I love you, B! You will forever be my sexiest, smartest, funniest, most loving, most patient, most brilliant, and most pogi B eveerrrr!!! Cheers to 11 more decades and beyond. 😂😂😂😘😘😘 PS: So proud of the man I said “I love you, too” back in November 3, 2010, when we came home from Tita Yollee’s birthday. Thank you for giving us the best life Jesse and I could ever wish for, B. Special thanks to Tita Cora and Doc Ric for our 7-month long beach vacay in their beautiful @officialclubpuntafuego home (syempre designed and built by JS and his late dad Arch. Jose. Hahahaha! 😂), and to @indayselga for this lovely photo, which I didn’t really like but JS said I was cute. Uto uto naman ako (and I believed him). 😅 PPS: I was donning my @hushangelsnaturals Believe shirt, of course! Whose anniversary is this month, too! 🙌🏽🎉 . . . . . #architecthusband #JourneyWithBigBoyJesse #thenandnow #husbandandwifeforlife #AllYouNeedIsLove2015
  • LET’S GO BACK TO 2019 The year 2019 was pivotal for me as it was the year I realized I could do so many more things apart from what I was “trained” to do and “groomed” to be. It was the year I thoroughly enjoyed the enlightenment of creating a life we don’t need a vacation from, created my Wordpress blog @bequalshappiness myself in less than three days, I got started in oiling, realized it will be one of my lifetime businesses, and founded @ohhappinest, fully embraced the all natural lifestyle, was asked to return to my former company under my own terms—working as a regular part-time employee with my own hours and own financial requirements (which I’ve retired from early this year), and enrolled in an unconventional #forextrading school: Leo Advantage, to name a few. I scoured my social media feed and realized I have not shared about that part my life—forex trading. Perhaps because I didn’t feel comfortable talking about money. Back then, I worried about being branded as arrogant or money hungry when I would bring up about it. So, I resorted to just letting my inner circle know that I traded in the foreign exchange market. Yes, I traded our OWN money and not other people’s money because doing the latter is considered ILLEGAL. I said Leo Advantage was unconventional because the strategy they teach is SIMPLE. Without the need of news indicators whatsoever—just the plain, naked charts. And the best part? It only required five minutes of our time per day. In fact, it was so simple, I grew my capital to 2,500% in less than six months, which was UNHEALTHY, because it meant I spent more than five minutes per day on the charts (the @architecthusband policed me quite a few times and I would always request for him to do so). But that was the old me. I realized I got obsessed with growing money because I thought I’d be able to live my purpose WHEN I already acquire the mad money I wanted… Swipe ⬅️ for the full caption. . . . . #whatwouldyoudo #intentionalliving #wellnesspurposeabundance
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